The real reason that people dont like Johnathan Van Ness’ personality on Queer Eye is not because they find that “type” of personality “annoying”, but it’s deep-rooted homophobic thoughts of being “too much” when you’re a flamboyant gay man and that’s unappealing both to straight people and to gay guys who refuse genuine femininity send tweet
In 2019 we grow from sex positivity to sex responsibility, meaning we:
call out shitty people who are just abusers and using kink/polyamory to mask it and stop supporting them
recognize that sometimes hypersexuality can be a form a self-harm for some people
keep kinks and fetishes in appropriate spaces and not bringing them out into general public spaces and thereby involving people in scenes they aren’t consenting to
understand that some fetishes are inherently unhealthy and some illegal to actually engage in for good reason and ignoring that is irresponsible at best
Allow people to acknowledge the hyper sexualization of young girls and the pressure for them to engage in sexual activity before they’re mature enough without accusing them of “slut shaming.” Stop encouraging young girls to “be a slut! get that dick!” when they’re not yet emotionally mature or responsible enough to handle the repercussions of it.
the fucked up thing about the salvation army is that theyre arguably the most visible and prominent hate group in america, but you cant hastle them or even protest them because to everyone else it would look like youre curb stomping santa clsuse
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