i’m v happy for ppl that are comfortable and embrace the q*eer label but that ain’t me and esp when i hear cishets say it my fight or flight response goes off immediately like all it does is remind me of pain and fear and make a pit in my stomach

OF COURSE just bc i don’t see the good in smth doesn’t mean it’s not there for someone else and i have a lot of admiration for reclaimers but it’s definitely on an individual basis and i just don’t know if i’ll ever get to that level